Ingrid Ebert-Rettburg

Ingrid Drebert-Rettberg, a beacon of love and generosity, passed away peacefully in her home on January 10, 2024, in Bath, New York. Born on February 5, 1940, in Stettin, Germany, Ingrid's radiant spirit and kind heart touched all who knew her. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend, whose selfless nature was her signature trait.
Ingrid's journey led her from her birthplace in Germany to the United States, where she embraced her new home with open arms. She graduated from Benjamin Franklin High School in Rochester, New York, and later became a proud citizen of the United States on November 9, 1993. She worked in retail management at B. Forman Company and The BonTon in Rochester.
Family was the cornerstone of Ingrid's life. She was predeceased by her beloved husband, Don Rettberg, and her dear son, Bryan "Buddy" DiMaria. Her loving legacy continues through her daughters, Wendy Harrison, and Sandy Stewart (Craig). Ingrid's joy was multiplied by her grandchildren, Brent Harrison, Kyle Harrison, Elisa Berrettone, Abby Griffin (Patrick), and Lily Stewart, and her great-grandson, Murphy Griffin. She cherished every moment spent with them and instilled in them the values of unconditional love, kindness, and a zest for life.
Ingrid's zest for life was evident in her hobbies and interests. She found solace in the tranquility of her garden, the pages of a good book, and the adventures that travel brought into her life. Her passion for nurturing growth, whether in her garden or her relationships, was a testament to her caring nature.Her relatives in Germany held a special place in her heart, and she maintained close ties with them throughout her life. Ingrid's ability to bridge the distance with love and affection was a true reflection of her generous spirit.
Those who knew Ingrid will remember her as the epitome of love and selflessness. She had the unique ability to make everyone feel cherished and valued. Her warm presence and the genuine interest she took in the lives of others were hallmarks of her character. Ingrid's passing leaves behind a legacy of love, a testament to a life well-lived, and a heart that gave unconditionally with a lot of fun sprinkled in. She will be deeply missed, but her spirit will continue to live on in the hearts of those she touched.
As we say farewell to Ingrid, we celebrate the remarkable woman she was and the countless lives she enriched. Her memory will be cherished and kept alive through the stories shared, the lessons taught, and the love she spread so freely. Her life story is one of courage, compassion, and unwavering devotion to her loved ones. Her light will never fade. Ingrid will be laid to rest with her husband Don, on March 16, 2024, at Arlington National Cemetery. A celebration of her life will take place in the spring.